He doesn't breath heavily down your neck the first night in bed together implying he is just as content to sleep.
He actually DOES pay for everything and never appears to resent it. He is investing in his favorite past time, you!
He doesn't always open doors for you but makes sure none are closed to you. His life and everything in it are open to your discretion.
You are never out of place because he will escort you to some where pleasant when he is busy with his obligation or there is a conflict. A scuffle is no place for a lady neither is it an opportunity to show off and he knows this.
When he is aware that you are feeling ill or uncomfortable he wakes casually to insure you that you are in his utmost care.
Attentive but not smothering, impressive but not arrogant. He is confident you will pay him the compliment, boasting is for the week who have much to compensate for.
He gives not only to his woman but to any one within reason.
This man, the Perfect Gentleman is also inclined to jealousy and is honest about it, but he will never leave you in a position to exploit his suspicions, he does his best to help you do yours.
And when the object of his affection is distressed, angry or simply being a woman, he knows pampering is in order.
It takes a man well versed in the complexities of the feminine sex to know how to keep one. He knows we are shallow and easily appeased by the finer things, restaurants, jewelry. Even the opportunity to dress up and dangle uselessly at his side like some large ornament gives us the kind of sensations some men spend most of their lives trying to harvest from their woman, we literally glow.
I've learned something about romance that seemed antiquated before, respect can be a powerful substitute for love, especially if your one of those who have tired and lost interest in throwing your heart down fairy tail wishing wells.
Its not as hard as it sounds to be this man. You just have to care enough.
I myself didn't think he could be found, but find him I did, and now I wish I hadn't.
He lives on the other side of the world and promises to wait till I return, I promise myself to oblige his waiting.